Wednesday, May 4 - Friday, May 6, 2022, Kyiv
WE CAN ADAPT TO EVERYTHING
Time doesn't matter as much as it used to. I noticed that I have adapted to all the troubles and practically do not get upset, no matter what happens.
During the war, the psyche adapts to everything. There are already very few things and events that give some kind of emotion. So it is much easier to endure hardships, losses and even pain.
Another week of waiting and almost no important events in my life. Wait, that might be a very strong statement. Something did happen. However, for many, this is a routine and does not cause interest.
The day before yesterday my legal business officially ended. I took about closing my office. Yesterday I took out all my things and gave the keys to the landlord. It's been almost 3 months since I've been out of work as a lawyer. I am just a volunteer and my only useful occupation is to deliver humanitarian aid to birds in Kyiv. As long as we can't leave, that's the only thing I can do here.
I also reassure people, as many have already broken. They do not believe and do not see the future. We are told that the war will last for a long, very long time. So we need to get used to living in a war. We just need to accept it and live on, without happiness and joy. Joy and laughter are now banned.
I caught myself thinking that I began to control my emotions very well, not even control, but stop them. And even stop the emotions of others. Until recently, I complained that because of the hormones, Roxy became very aggressive, bites and screams a lot. There is no more of this. My fluffy princess is now very calm. In three days I was able to make her become perfect. She felt, understood that now is a different time and she can no longer be a capricious child. Now her walks are going smoothly. Yes, she can continue to gnaw on furniture 🙂 . I do not mind. I forbid biting me and screaming. She agreed and we have an idyll again.
On Roxy's condition:
Now everything is fine again. Her walks resumed. Her diet contains a lot of dandelions and greens. Roxy doesn't demand anything and spends a lot of time just playing with her toys.
About the situation in Kyiv:
finally it became warm, even hot. Today I have already seen people in T-shirts and shorts on the street. Everyone is used to shelling and sounds of alarm. Everyone is busy with their own affairs, although there are practically no such cases. However, greenery and bright sun significantly improve mood. Just being on the street and not in the basement is also important now.
Thank you all for the prayers and support. We will hold on and report our news. I send love and hope to everyone! XOXO
Best wishes,
Sergii & Roxy
I hope you know how by giving us updates on what your life is like now, it put things in perspective. I can't imagine what your daily life is like. I do know that your posts humble me. They remind me how fragile life is and what's really important. Your generosity and good deeds for your fellow Ukrainians and their pets in time of war, while risking your life is the work of a very kind soul. Sergii, for me this post really me a lot to think about. I think it gave us all a lot to think about. You and Roxy's ability to adapt day in and day out is almost unimaginable but I know it's REAL …
I think about you daily. I am in Colorado, USA, but you are in my heart, the both of you. Please stay safe and get out at the earliest opportunity. Tell me how I can help you- Gerri
It is good to read that Roxy has become a lot calmer now. Everything must have just become too much for her and the added hormonal change added the additional layer of instability to her. She is such a sweet soul who has undergone so much.
Your words convey so much and paint such a strong picture; it is sad to read how, understandably, people are broken - I admire the will to carry on even when faced with everything happening not just today but into the future. It must be hard to not see such bleak times ahead when this pathetic show of insecurity continues to be inflicted on your country.
I wish the change of weather and nature's…
I'm happy to hear Roxy has calmed down. I know that makes life easier for you. A huge THANKS for continuing to deliver the avian-itarian aid. Soon I can afford to donate. My heart is with you, Roxy & all the people & animals of Ukraine 💜 🇺🇦 💜 much love from my flock & I in NJ usa
It’s good to know that you are both OK! It is true that humans can adapt to most situations however it is sad that joy and happiness are on hold in the present situation. The brighter weather may go some way towards lifting the spirit. I’m glad that Roxy has become more settled. She is clearly very much bonded to you however the biting is not good! We will continue with our prayers and thoughts and a hope that you will be able to move to a safer place in the near future.